Archive for September, 2007

Bad Porn

It is the title of Phil Ryken’s most recent post on Reformation 21. It is also what Naomi Wolf calls the real naked body due to the effects of pornography. Doesn’t that seem like the reversal of what we might think? Well, Ms. Wolf calls it The Porn Myth (discretion advised). She says that the effect of pornography “is not making men into raving beasts. On the contrary: The onslaught of porn is responsible for deadening male libido in relation to real women.” Translation: Men favor images of naked women to the real thing. This effects women in multiple ways. It certainly objectifies them in the eyes of men. It also creates the feeling in women that they will never measure up to these “perfected” images. It can cause women to do some desperate things to gain the attention of men. In effect, the desperate measures taken by women lead to the objectifying mentality in men. It can become a vicious cycle.

I urge you to go read Phil Ryken’s reflections on the porn myth. And men, take Dr. Ryken’s words seriously. Take notice of the effect that pornography has on our dear sisters and women of all kinds.

Convergent Conference

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Today I began listening to the recorded sessions from the Convergent Conference at Southeastern Baptist Theological Seminary. Let me just say that so far they are stellar. I have listened to the first three and now wish I would’ve been in attendance. J.D. Greear is soon to become one of my new favorite preachers. He gave some great examples of how to better serve your community. Ed Stetzer did a great job of reminding us of the inherent relevance of the gospel. I thought the highlight of his message came when he distinguished between changing modes and changing theology. The methods of reaching out and sharing the gospel can and inevitably will change as culture changes. However, the message of the gospel is timeless and not subject to the popular notions of the day. This is where the most extreme manifestation of the emergent church has gotten it wrong. Stetzer’s discussion naturally led itself into Mark Driscoll’s session. He gave an overview of his life and ministry and then explained the three streams of the emerging church: relevants, revisionists, and reformed.

These messages are quite possibly the best I have heard on the subject of the emerging church, cultural engagement, and differing methods. They are so good that I’m going to post them all here so you can have easy access to them. And if you are an iTunes user you can download all of the audio directly at the Southeastern podcast.

Christianity Today on Driscoll

Christianity Today recently ran an article on Mark Driscoll called Pastor Provocateur. For all the flack that Driscoll receives for being brash, I found this article to be insightful and quite fair. I was touched by one man’s account of how Driscoll saved his marriage and ministry. I’ve also been challenged and encouraged by Driscoll’s humility in recognizing his shortcomings. It is always easier to see the faults in others and miss the huge plank in our own eye. I admire his transparency and ability to make God known through his weaknesses. There is a lot more I could say but go read the article for yourself. I believe it will bless you as you seek to live out the gospel daily.

Gushee Challenges Complementarians

I should begin this post with a word of gratitude toward Dr. David Gushee. Dr. Gushee was a professor of mine during my time at Union University. He is now the Distinguished Professor of Christian Ethics at Mercer University. I am thankful for the influence he had on me during my time at Union. His ethics courses challenged me to truly consider the way I live out my faith in every day decisions. Furthermore, Dr. Gushee helped me to see the implications of my faith in regards to many difficult ethical issues. I have found his book Kingdom Ethics, co-written with Dr. Glen Stassen, to be extremely thoughtful and fair minded. It has become a useful resource in my collection of books.

Dr. Gushee recently wrote an article for the Associated Baptist Press called Opinion: Keeping complementarians true to Scripture. The issue of gender roles is a hot topic within the church today. The two views that are at odds with one another within this debate are complementarianism and egalitarianism. A summary of the two positions with objections and responses can be found at The Council for Biblical Manhood and Womanhood.

Dr. Gushee writes from the perspective of an egalitarian. As he puts it, “I am convinced that all positions of service and leadership in the life of the local church should be open to women or men based entirely on calling and gifts — an egalitarian view.” One of his main motivations in addressing complementarians is “to help you keep the application of your approach as biblical as possible.” With this purpose in mind, Dr. Gushee lays out four questions that he believes “expose weaknesses in complementarianism that cannot be mended from within that paradigm.”

  • Are you successfully communicating to young men the conviction that a complementarian perspective must elevate rather than diminish the dignity of women, and therefore inculcating a moral commitment on their part to act accordingly?
  • Are you absolutely clear on which positions of Christian service (you believe) are barred to women?
  • Once you have determined what positions of Christian service are barred to women, you have therefore also determined which positions are permitted. Are you active in encouraging women to pursue the positions that are permitted?
  • When women occupy positions of church leadership that parallel those of men, are their positions named equally and are the individuals involved treated equally?

I believe Dr. Gushee’s questions are extremely valid and appropriately challenging to all complementarians. As a complementarian myself, I believe we should be holding the dignity of women in high regard. I also believe that we should encourage women to use their gifts in service within the church. And I certainly believe that men and women in parallel positions should be treated equally. However, I believe Scripture is clear about the differing roles within the church for men and women. The role of an elder is to be reserved for a male who leads his family well and is able to teach. What about other positions? Are those reserved only for men as well? That discussion is for another time. This distinction does not make men better or greater than women, just different. We can see this same principle when Scripture speaks of marriage. Men and women are equal but different.

Though Dr. Gushee’s questions are very helpful, I believe his conclusion on complementarianism is flawed. His questions reflect experiences with the inconsistency of some who hold the complementarian position. He asks these questions not only to challenge us but to “expose weaknesses” through the evidence of practical inconsistency. However, the inconsistencies do not automatically discredit the position. As Denny Burk says,

Gushee assumes that the abuse of one’s principles (in this case Complementarianism) invalidates the principles themselves. But this premise is totally unwarranted and if applied to other principles would lead to totally absurd conclusions. Can you imagine if someone said the following: “Civil laws are constantly broken by those who otherwise say those laws are just. Therefore, the hypocrisy of the lawbreakers invalidates the laws.”

As Dr. Gushee mentions, the egalitarian position has many practical inconsistencies of its own. The argument against egalitarianism is not based on the inability of people to apply its principles. The argument against this view is rooted in the belief that Scripture does not teach it. I do believe Dr. Gushee’s questions are useful and challenging. However, I believe there are good answers to these questions. I also believe that there are good examples of churches and people living out the principles of complementarianism. It does not negate the fact that many are not consistent with their belief. Practical consistency is an issue for all positions because humans are inconsistent by nature. Yet we could apply this same concern and argument to many aspects of the Christian life. So does the struggle to live out Christian principles discredit a person from being a Christian? I think not. Otherwise our faith would not be based on the grace of God but on the consistent works of man. In the end, I believe Dr. Gushee’s argument falls well short of exposing flaws in the complementarian view. It does however reiterate the fact that inconsistency is a part of who we are as humans. Thus Dr. Gushee’s argument reminds us of our continued need for the transforming grace of God.

Blog Alert: True Koinonia

I am excited to draw your attention to a new blog that I am contributing to called True Koinonia. It is connected to Concord-Grandview Baptist Church (my home church) and comprised of several men within our church. Our hope is that TK will be an encouragement to the men involved, the church we serve, and for all those who visit. The idea of True Koinonia is to provide a place of encouragement, accountability, and fellowship for believers as each of us seek to live out the gospel.

Koinonia is the Greek word for “fellowship” or “partnership.” So what is fellowship? True fellowship is partnering together for the sake of the gospel. What does fellowship look like? Fellowship is best represented by a body of believers laboring together in service. I know that my greatest moments of fellowship and bonding with other believers has come in the midst of serving together. So come drop by and join in the discussion. As I’ve always said, it’s all about the fellowship.


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